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Working As A Team

Working As A Team

Brandon asked me the other day to help him think of a topic for a pod cast for Thriving Couples. I thought for a bit about it and replied, “how about the importance of working as a team in your marriage?”

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Part Two: Fifty Shades of Grey: Sexual Abuse All Grown Up

Part Two: Fifty Shades of Grey: Sexual Abuse All Grown Up

In my last blog I started a series on my critique of Fifty Shades of Grey, a trilogy of books that advocate using bondage and sadomasochism (abbreviated BDSM) as a way to spruce up your love live.  The blog was a response to a question by a reader (Thank you!) who felt the book she’d started to read (first in the series) seemed to contradict her faith and made her morally uncomfortable.

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Have An Easy Peasy Marriage By . . .

Have An Easy Peasy Marriage By . . .

I am a huge fan of common sense. I don’t really know why. This might be because common sense is just so pragmatic. Possibly I adore it because I am just naïve and need to adopt a more ‘critical spirit.’

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Fighting the Vampires of the Sexuality of Death

Fighting the Vampires of the Sexuality of Death

Sometimes popular myths are truer than people realize.  The popular vampire storyline that has our public in all agog is a case in point.  If you have sex with a vampire you die.  Whatayaknow?  That’s what the Bible’s been saying for 3000 years:  Sex outside of marriage leads to death.  I call it the Sexuality of Death.

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Sex Robots: The Sexual Revolution’s Disaster-Piece

Sex Robots: The Sexual Revolution’s Disaster-Piece

CAUTION: ADULT CONTENT.

The Sexual Revolution of the 1960s has finally shown its true colors. For a long time, I thought the true color was the innumerable children being born out of wedlock or simply aborted. For along time, I thought the true color was the spread of STDs and AIDS. For a long time, I thought the true color was the breakdown of marriages due to the growing acceptances of infidelity, porn, and cohabitation. I thought we already knew the painting’s colors.

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Why Should I Quit Porn?

Why Should I Quit Porn?

In just asking this question, I have in my minds eye a young man, say about 30, who’s now married or thinking of getting married and he’s sitting on my couch by himself.

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